I still need to feel wanted by you. Just because you know you got me and you don’t think I’m going anywhere anytime soon, it doesn’t give you the right to start treating me differently. There shouldn’t be any lack of motivation in wanting to keep me as yours. You should put in twice the effort to make us move forward, make progress, also to make sure my feelings remain the same. In return, I’ll promise you this battle will be worth the win. Keep fighting for me.
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(Source: leilockheart, via the-gook)
A fear of liking someone more than they like me. I don’t like depending on others for my own happiness, especially on those who can walk out of my life at any second. It’s a scary thought, to be abandoned and to have everything that brought you happiness vanish right in front of your eyes. As result of paranoia, over time, I’ve developed this fear of being dependent on others and having stronger feelings for someone than they have for me. I don’t want someone else to have the control and power to break me. I don’t want my happiness to be based off of someone else’s existence. I don’t want to be attached to someone else or give them the satisfaction of knowing I want them with me.
Despite the fact that I’m saying all of this, I know that deep inside, what I truly want is someone to help me overcome my fear.
And I’m hoping that person will be you.
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Whatever happened to chivalry? Does it only exist in 80’s movies? I want John Cusack holding a boombox outside my window. I wanna ride off on a lawnmower with Patrick Dempsey. I want Jake from Sixteen Candles waiting outside the church for me. I want Judd Nelson thrusting his fist into the air because he knows he got me. Just once I want my life to be like an 80’s movie, preferably one with a really awesome musical number for no apparent reason. But no, no, John Hughes did not direct my life.
I just met this 5 foot 7 guy who’s just my type.
I like the way he’s speaking his confidence is peaking.
Don’t like his baggy jeans but I’m like what’s underneath it.
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